Physical beauty in a woman may not be everything, but for good or bad it's certainly very important. Would Prince Charming have asked Cinderella for a dance and fallen in love with her if she had not been the most beautiful girl at the ball? The honest answer is probably "No".
Psychological studies show that men still rank female beauty the highest among a long list of attributes that they seek in women. The phrase "I love you for your beauty" is hardly likely to be heard from the lips of a man in these politically correct days, but it is nevertheless often true, at least in the earliest stages of a relationship. A wonderful mind is great, but sometimes - like Cinderella - you also need the "beauty" to create the initial opening.
The immense amount of time and money that the average women spends on maintaining or improving her physical appearance has been given many justifications, but "I just like to look my best" is very close to "I just like to look beautiful".
It can be reasonably claimed that societies continuing lust for physical beauty is more appropriate to the Stone Age than to the modern Internet Age - the qualities that men find alluring in a woman may be powerful emblems of her health, fertility and resistance to disease, but they say nothing about her moral worth. The valuing of physical beauty may cause emotional pain and considerable injustice, but this does not prevent its continued worship - as a brief perusal of any magazine stand will prove.
The increasing number of lawsuits involving claimed discrimination on the basis of looks have made little impact to our attitude, nor have the best efforts of some feminist pressure groups to stop the supposed exploitation of women's body's (e.g. beauty contests) - indeed it can be argued that advances in cosmetics, plastic surgery and a constant media bombardment have increased the pressure on women to be "beautiful".
Competition to be Beautiful
Historically there were often many more adult women than available fit adult men - the dangers of hunting, warfare, long journeys etc. taking all too many men in their prime. For women, finding a husband to look after them could become a life and death matter, being more beautiful than your peers often meant the difference between a long life and even luxurious life - and starvation.
The Cinderella story still shows to all the young girls who are read it every night, beautiful young women are far more likely to marry "better", richer and socially higher husbands than the ugly sisters are - and it is certainly no coincidence that so many of the wives and mistresses of noblemen and royalty that we see in portraits dating back 200 years, 400 years, ... 600 years are often exceptionally beautiful women - even discounting some generous artistic licence.
Even today, being beautiful definitely has practical advantages - for example pretty, tall, slim women earn about 15% more than their more dowdy, shorter, fatter counterparts. It is perhaps not surprising that women discuss the appearance and beauty of [other] women at least as much as men do, and far more brutally and critically
For many women, a concern about their looks is not just an important part of being female, but a fundamental of being themselves. Most mothers enjoy and take great pride in dressing up their daughters from the earliest age with make-up, hair accessories, jewellery and dresses. A young girl can expect to get more compliments on her appearance than anything else, and soon learns the rewards of looking pretty and being considered beautiful - all of which is reinforced by Cinderella type stories.
A girl's informal beauty lessons and training start by nursery age - and by her teens she will already have spent hundreds, if not thousands, of hours practicing and experimenting. During puberty, peer pressure often makes her appearance and looks become almost an obsession. Dissatisfaction is all too common - e.g. about half of all High School girls are on some form of weight control regime, and even plastic surgery is nowadays increasingly desired!
It's relevant to this site to point out that a transsexual male-to-female woman who transitions as an adult lacks this lengthy childhood beautification "training". She thus faces an enormous challenge in developing as quickly as possible her female orientation, appearance and presentation - something which other women have been doing since their birth. This is a great disadvantage, and makes successful "passing" as a woman far more difficult, particularly in the first months after full time transition.
is Female Beauty?
Judging beauty involves looking at another person and subconsciously figuring out whether you want your children to carry that person's genes. We judge each other by rules that we're often not even aware of. We may consciously admire Kate Moss's legs, but we're also viscerally attuned to small variations in the size and symmetry of facial bones and the placement of weight on the body.
Research correlates the physical attraction of human males to human females to certain basic physical features, regardless of culture. These include:
The possession of beautiful characteristics by a woman acts as a 'certification of biological quality', offering her a significant mating advantage over other women in the competition for partners and reproduction - historically and today. All men are innately attracted to a beautiful woman, and she is thus more likely to be able to attract and select a high quality, high status, man as her mate - but women can often be pragmatic and he may not be the most beautiful (aka most handsome and physically attractive) partner available. It can be argued that women have an inherent ruthless streak that urges them to seek out the most beautiful mate to sire her children, and separately (and if necessary deceitfully) a high value partner who will best look after her and her children. Modern DNA testing is certainly revealing in many instances a woman's children are actually be sired by another, presumably often more "beautiful" man, than their husband - one study found that 1 in 8 of the children tested were probably calling the wrong man "Daddy"!
Our ancestors preferred to mate with "beautiful" individuals in order to leave more, and healthier, offspring than the average individual in the population. The process of evolution then further emphasises "beautiful" characteristics - in women the overhead of say an extra pound of flesh on the bust has proven to be a far more successful survival technique than say stronger muscles.
While sexual equality may be vogue, in reality the two predominant genetic (XX and XY) sexes are drifting ever further apart in their physical appearance. In particular women are still evolving to appear ever more beautiful and youthful - and evolving far more rapidly than men. Men are not evolving towards their model of beauty at the same rate as women because an ugly but rich and high status man can be successful in attracting a good quality mate. A statistical analysis of "beautiful" Hollywood couples shows that their first child is 67% more likely to be a girl than a boy - nature somehow seizing the chance to maximise the birth of child of the sex for whom beauty is the more important.
It seems quite possible that in a few hundred generations time the average 35 year old woman could have the looks and figure of a 20 year old Playboy model today - and without the surgery. In the context of this site, a middle aged male-to-female transsexual worried about passing as a woman should perhaps be thankful that evaluation hasn't had another 10,000 years to work on homo sapiens!
A common finding in studies is that males prefer females who are young, strong and healthy - but above all who are fertile and at the peak of their reproductive potential. A woman's ability to bear children is dependent upon her age and hormone levels. A woman is at her reproductive peak around the age of 20, even with the support of modern medicine (HRT, IVF, ...) her fertility has declined two thirds by age 44, and it's usually spent by 54.
In one cross-cultural survey, men in all 37 of the societies examined preferred younger wives, on average around 2 ½ years younger than the male. And as males get older, they prefer mates who are increasingly younger.
If a woman is ever going to be considered "beautiful" it's in the years from her late puberty (typically 15 or 16), when her body has fully rounded out, to her early 20's, before gravity and the passage of time have started to work their first ravages. The male eye is astonishing good at picking up the first sign of aging in an otherwise perfectly youthful beauty - signs of character around the eye's, bad teeth, or less than firm buttocks and warning lights flash and marks are subconsciously deducted.
The female face is particularly easy to read for signs of aging. The youthful woman has large eyes and plump lips. The apparent size of these features peaks in the early 20s when fertility also peaks. As fertility declines, the lips dry and shrink, the skin wrinkles and the flesh round the eyes causes them to look smaller.
Age is the foremost enemy of beauty, but ill health and overexposure to sunlight also take their toll. Wrinkles are not due purely to chronological age. Most skin specialists say that the majority of wrinkles are due to sunlight, as a result of constant exposure to the sun the face skin ages more quickly and more visibly than any other part of the body. Avoiding the Sun is the best way to prevent or delay wrinkles, although we do need some natural light for health, while sunbathing will considerably hasten it.
But the effects of ageing do other things to the face as well. Gravity plays a big part. The jowls drop and the fatty tissues beneath the skin break down as cells are replaced less often. The face of youth is a triangle shape - at its widest at the cheekbones. The face of age is more like a square with the chin competing for dominance. The cheeks sink in and the skin looks less fresh because the epidermal cells have slowed down their rate of renewal. Melanin in the hair stops renewing itself and the hair turns grey or white. Strangely though, the eyelashes retain their colour throughout life, never turning white.
Genetics also plays a part in ageing. As melanin protects the skin from wrinkling, the people who are likely to show their age most quickly are freckly redheads, who have less melanin than others.
Good luck as regards genes, combined with a healthy life style and regular exercise can delay things, but by age 30 at the very latest, even a supermodel will lose the allure of youthfulness when unaided by cosmetics, surgery and supporting garments.
help of such artificial aids most women seek the appearance of eternal youth
- but at great and ever increasing cost in time and money. The average
American woman spends nearly one hour a day (two or even three hours isn't
uncommon) on beauty care and maintaining her appearance:- bathing, makeup,
hair, nails, depilating, massage, exercising, selecting her attire, etc.
For both men and women, greater symmetry predicts a larger number of past sex partners, and a 1994 study found that the most symmetrical males had not only had more off-spring than their most lopsided brethren, but started having sex three to four years earlier! Also, a survey of 86 couples found that women with highly symmetrical partners were more than twice as likely to climax during intercourse (an event that may foster conception by ushering sperm into the uterus) than those with low-symmetry partners.
Studies show that highly symmetrical people are healthier, grow faster, and are better able to survive, while low-symmetry has been linked to schizophrenia, mental retardation, birth pre-maturity and left-handedness. Facial symmetry is certainly associated with health. After analysing diaries kept by 100 students over a two-month period, researchers found that the least symmetrical had the most physical complaints, from insomnia to nasal congestion, and reported more anger, jealousy and withdrawal.
Neotenous Female Face
As a rule, average faces are more attractive than unusual ones but the faces we find most beautiful are not average. When people are asked to develop ideal faces on a computer, they tend to exaggerate certain qualities. A 1993 study used a computer program which allowed participants to morph faces until they had achieved an ‘ideal’ face. The ideal 25-year-old woman as configured by participants had a higher forehead than an average one, as well as fuller lips, a shorter jaw and a smaller chin and nose. She had a 14-year-old's abundant lips and an 11-year-old's delicate jaw. Because her lower face was so small, she also had relatively prominent eyes and cheekbones.
Men see as beautiful in women the residual child-like facial features that are influenced by the presence of the female hormone oestrogen, or perhaps more correctly the absence of features that would be induced by the high levels of male androgen hormones such as testosterone - which may obliquely indicate low fertility. Such oestrogenized features (large eyes, high cheek bones, small nose, small chins, full lips, short eye-chin distance etc.,) are regarded as being very attractive and may be seen as an indicator of youth and female fertility, and hence reproductive potential. No one claims that a fine jaw reveals a woman's exact odds of getting pregnant, but like her breasts and figure it might imply that she could and is worth a male investing in her as a potential mating partner. One study demonstrated that male volunteers not only consciously prefer women with small lower faces, but also have marked rises in subconscious brain activity when looking at pictures of them!
Any cues to illness or advanced age (wrinkles, grey hair, poor complexion, facial blemishes, poor teeth, etc.) are universally rated as being unattractive. Books on the use of cosmetics are essentially manuals on how to accentuate youthfulness and the neotenous and symmetrical facial features that are known to be reliable health and fertility indicators. With the development of plastic surgery these much desired and admired features of human female beauty can be acquired in a more permanent state, as compared to the temporary state of cosmetics. Almost all plastic surgery attempts to correct asymmetries and exaggerate traits that are generally considered to be beautiful - and subconsciously reliable indicators of youth, health and fertility.
Before puberty and after menopause, females have essentially the same waistlines as males. But during puberty waves of sex hormones start circulating in the body, high levels of the male hormone testosterone causes boys to amass in their upper body the bone and muscle of Stone Age hunters, while a high concentration of oestrogen in the female body results in the typical girl gaining nearly 35 pounds of so called reproductive fat deposited on the hips and thighs, rather than on the waist. Those pounds contain roughly the 80,000 calories needed to sustain a pregnancy, and the curves they create provide a gauge of reproductive potential. Devendra Singh, a University of Texas psychologist notes "You have to get very close to see the details of a woman's face, but you can see the shape of her body from 500 feet, and it says more about mate value.".
The sex differences in fat and tissue distribution can be assessed by measuring the waist at its narrowest point, and the hip at the level of the buttocks, and computing a waist-to-hip ratio (WHR). After puberty the female WHR becomes significantly lower than that of the male - the typical female range being between 0.67-0.80; while the typical male range is 0.85 - 0.95.
Studies have found a strong link between the male fascination for Barbie doll curves (or small waist to hip ratios) in women and a higher disposition of fertility and health. This masculine preference for women with an oestrogenized small WHR has sound scientific reasons...
A growing body of evidence indicates that WHR is an accurate indicator of reproductive status a female with a more hourglass figure is more fertile and healthy than non-curvaceous or high WHR woman. Almost anything that interferes with fertility - obesity, malnutrition, pregnancy, menopause - changes a woman's shape. Healthy, fertile women typically have waist-hip ratios of 0.6 to 0.8, meaning their waists are 60 to 80 percent the size of their hips, whatever their actual weight. To take one familiar example, a 36-24-36 figure would have a WHR of 0.67.
Many women outside this range are healthy and capable of having children, of course. But as researchers in the Netherlands discovered in a 1993 study, even a slight increase in waist size relative to hip size can signal reproductive problems. Among 500 women who were attempting in vitro fertilization, the odds of conceiving during any given cycle declined by 30 percent with every .1 increase in WHR. In other words, a woman with a WHR of .9 was nearly a third less likely to get pregnant than one with a WHR of .8, regardless of her age or weight. WHR also signals health status as the incidence of certain diseases (diabetes, hypertension, heart problems, strokes, etc.) vary with body fat distribution - a high WHR indicates a greater propensity to have such problems.
In 2007, a study by a team of Cambridge mathematicians found that it is the ratio between hips and waist that also puts a sexy sway into a woman's walk - and the nearer the ratio is to 0.7 the better. This ratio provides the body with just the right torso strength to produce a more angular swing and bounce to the hips during the walking motion. After studying various famous women, they concluded that the walk of actress Jessica Alba beat off rivals such as Kate Moss and even Marilyn Monroe, whose sashy along a railway platform in Some Like It Hot is one of the most famous in film history. While Monroe was a fraction off the target ratio, Alba with a 25in waist and 36in has the perfect proportions for a sexy walk!
Given the availability of such a revealing signal as WHR, it is not surprising that men respond by observing a woman's figure and consciously or unconsciously using it to infer her potential mating value. Men 'biologically' prefer curvy women with a pronounced hourglass figure, since these physical features of a woman are often associated with high fertility and good health. It is also likely that females enhance their attractiveness by emphasising and advertising a low WHR through ornamentation and clothing. But contrary to popular opinion, the studies quoted above show that men prefer the average-sized female figure, as opposed to one that is particularly thin or fat - which may indicate fertility problems. In addition, a higher ratio is also obviously indicative of pregnancy, which would be of particular concern to a man seeking a mate with whom to bear children! A Weekend Post/Compas Inc. poll echoes this male preference. More men ranked "well-proportioned curves" and "curvaceous and voluptuous" far higher that the choice of "thin and straight body like a magazine model."
It is perhaps unsurprising to find that the voluptuous but 'wasp' waisted Marilyn Monroe has nearly perfect proportions for men, her quoted weight and measurements fluctuate somewhat during her 20's and 30's, but her bust is usually given as 36-38" and her waist as 23-24" - in practice her waist:hip ratio was probably consistently about 0.65.
Interestingly, women in the U.S., when asked to rate female figures toward the "ideal," consistently choose thinner figures than their male counterparts.
Western women are bombarded by magazine articles, advertising images and television programmes (e.g. ... Next Top Model) encouraging them to diet and exercise almost to extremis in order to be beautiful - items often written or scripted by other women.
It would seem that the current trend for girls to diet until they become seriously underweight is more due to peer pressure from other women than from men. Indeed emaciated women are likely to be unhealthy and infertile, and thus offer little attraction to men seeking to mate - surviving an eating disorder (or a famine) is one of the most common causes of female infertility. At the point where a woman drops below 5 percent total body fat, her body begins to cannibalise the less important organs for nourishment, including reproductive tissue. It's unfortunately no coincidence that many 'coat hanger' models and stick-thin actresses have difficulty having children.
and regular exercise is undoubtedly an ideal to aim at, but in excess
(anorexia being an extreme example) it can have a truly devastating effect
upon a woman during what should be her most "beautiful", marriageable and
Archaeology seems to show that 20,000 years ago Stone Age men strongly favoured women with voluptuous breasts and prominent buttocks. It appears that men looking for a partner ignored skinny women and competed fiercely for females with the shapeliest buxom and bottom. The experts think that well-presented breasts and buttocks signalled wealth, health and a good diet.
The perceived attractiveness and mating advantage of women with generous buxom and buttocks has almost certainly resulted in a steady increase in these features over the generations - in the fierce height of evolutions "survival of the fittest", their size and shape must have long ago moved from the realms of physical reproductive necessity to exaggerated exhibitionism to help attract a good mate.
For example only one-third of a female woman's breast tissue is actually associated with milk production - the rest is merely fatty tissue. Indeed, a large buxom is actually a survival handicap to a woman, but it's also a symbol to men that she must be healthy and fit in order to be able to afford to carry such an unnecessary overhead.
A female becomes very aware of her buxom and its effect on men as she steps out of her adolescence and attains youth. A girl gets rapid body changes between about 12 and 14 years of age - puberty - and her breasts start showing. Between about age 14 and 18 her breasts become fully rounded, but are still pert and firm, and they reach their peak in attractiveness. However, sometimes their growth is stunted due to hormonal imbalance, congenital defects or deficiency of nourishing diet - this reducing the girls attractiveness as a mate. After 18 the breasts gradually start sagging and lose their tautness from the effects of gravity, increasing age, and (as appropriate) illness, pregnancy, breast feeding, irregular menstruation, and eventually the menopause.
A similar process applies to buttocks - their attractiveness to men peaks in a girls late teens, thereafter they slowly become less firm and smooth. Girls in their thirties often start to experience unsightly skin dimpling - cellulite - this condition seems to be strongly related to hormones and in particular oestrogens.
Although exceptionally shapely breasts and buttocks are a gift of nature to a woman, there are a few things that all women can do to maintain whatever she has been endowed with in the best possible condition, in particular regular exercise. The use of well-fitting brassieres to support the breasts from their developmental years was for a long time also strongly recommended, however recently the medical profession has come around to the opinion that unless very well endowed, bra's actually do little to preserve the shapely curves and firmness of young breasts, aging and heredity characteristics are the primary contributors to eventual breast sagging. These days the main reasons for wearing a bra are probably social pressures, for improved appearance, personal comfort, and when playing energetic sports.
Of course if all else fails, plastic surgery is now a real option that can dramatically improve a young woman's bust and buttocks, or successfully roll-back the years for an older woman.
Part 2 of "Female Physical Beauty"....
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